Describe what you're stuck on. We guide you through structured questions. At the end, you see the same situation through a different lens.
No chatbot. No advice. Just the right questions.
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One sentence about what you're stuck on. We'll show you two ways to see it.
Write what you're stuck on — a problem, a decision, a pattern. Don't worry about being precise.
A structured process asks you the right questions in the right order. 15-25 minutes, depending on depth.
See your “Frame A” and “Frame B” side by side. Same situation, different lens. New actions become visible.
Each process is designed for a specific kind of stuck-point. Pick the one that fits, or let us recommend one.
You're stuck on a specific, concrete problem and the obvious approaches aren't working.
You're choosing between two options and can't decide — it feels like a forced choice.
The same type of problem keeps happening despite different surface-level solutions.
Your view of a situation feels narrow or one-dimensional and you sense you're missing something.
A deep, persistent feeling keeps showing up across different situations in your life.
You're stuck because the problem feels entangled with who you are — 'that's just not me.'
Real examples of how a 15-30 minute session can shift how you see a situation.
Pattern Break · 25 min
“I keep ending up overcommitted and resentful.”
Three situations
Volunteered to lead a project no one wanted — burned out. Said yes to a friend's request despite my own deadlines — felt angry afterward. Took on all the household tasks because 'no one else does it right' — exhausted.
The pattern
I say yes before checking whether I actually want to.
The go-to move
I take over to prevent things from falling apart.
The belief behind it
I kept doing this because I believed if I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done — and that would be my fault.
The governing variable
My worth is measured by how indispensable I am.
Before
I need better boundaries and time management.
After
I volunteer before I'm asked because I believe my worth depends on being needed. Better scheduling won't change that — questioning whether I need to be indispensable might.
Flip · 15 min
“Should I take the promotion or stay where I am?”
Before
I have to choose: more money and stress, or less money and comfort.
After
Both options assume my current role can't change. What if I redesigned what I already have?
Premise Excavation · 30 min
“I feel anxious every time I share my work.”
Before
I need to build more confidence in my abilities.
After
I've been operating on the belief that being seen accurately is dangerous — because the first time I was truly seen, I was criticised. Confidence isn't the issue; the belief that visibility equals vulnerability is.
Free. No account required. Research-backed processes grounded in cognitive and affect science.
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